No matter how I tried to finish sentence, I kept coming back to that simple word, all by itself, no qualifiers.

No qualifiers? Just allow everything and everyone? But some of those people and things are a little crazy. Do I allow them to be crazy? Well, why not? For some reason that I can't understand, they have chosen to be crazy. It needn't affect me, not if I can understand there is a lesson in craziness for them. I have my own lessons and I know I would like others to allow me to learn those lessons way I need to learn them, way that I will learn them.

Allowing includes allowing me to be me. And by allowing myself full range of human emotions, by being a person who loves, gets angry, knows joy, feels resentment, cries, feels tired, experiences satisfaction, in fact by feeling every emotion and admitting (and therefore owning) that emotion, then I can be a 'perfect' human being. For that whole range of emotions is part of human experience, and keeping those 'unacceptable' (by whom?) feelings bottled up, I'm only short-changing myself.

And I've noticed that people who never allow themselves to get angry are really always angry, proverbial fire keg ready to explode. Yet how many times have I noticed that 'getting it out of my system', through yelling or tears, does actually that, it gets that feeling out of my system! Experiencing feeling isn't bad, it's living it, staying in that negative mood that's unhealthy.

And allowing ourselves to feel, really feel, emotion we're experiencing is what living in moment is all about. Yet there's a big difference between living in moment and living for moment. There's no sense of purpose in living for, while living in allows us to take all information we need from this moment, whether it be joyful or sad, and bring it into our next moment.

I found myself worrying about staying in moment, worrying that I wouldn't 'move on' with my life. But more experience I get at living in moment, I find that I make better, more informed decisions about what next moment will be. Better decisions than when I spend all of this moment worrying about what happened yesterday or what's going to happen in future.

And moments are controllable! When I live in moment, decision to stay, or move on, is definitely something that is in my hands -- and moments I can handle. Yet each moment is a forever, when we are truly in it. Learning to allow and to live in moment is, I'm finding, anything but simple. Or perhaps I should say it's incredibly simple, just not easy!

It's hard to break old habits of fear and guilt, but more I can do that, more assured I am that that's way I want to live. How do you start? By noticing where your attention is at any given moment. For example, this moment, right now, is about reading this article. If you can remember what I've written, essence of it, then you're living in moment. If you can't, then take a deep breath and read it again. Then check in. Do you remember gist now? Congratulations! And welcome to moment!

There are several ways to charge your mind and thoughts with magnetic power. Strong desire, concentration and faith are some of important ingredients for infusing power into thoughts.

Many activate magnetic power of their mind unconsciously, without knowing what they are doing. When you know rules, you become able to activate magnetic power of your mind consciously, positively and effectively.

Visualizing and thinking with concentration, desire and faith, and repeating these thoughts often, unleashes powerful energy. Your thoughts get radiated and broadcasted, influencing minds of other people, and attracting to you people who think along same lines as you do and who can help you with your plans. This process also heightens your awareness and perceptiveness of any opportunity connected with your thoughts that comes your way, and fills you with inner power and initiative to utilize it.

Why not become conscious of your thoughts, choose to think ones that are beneficial for you, and consciously and advantageously utilize power of attraction? You can attract people, circumstances, events, possessions or a life style with magnetic power of attraction of your mind.

Remember, what you think about intently, with attention and feeling is attracted to you. It can be material and it can be spiritual. The power of attraction is a universal power and manifests everywhere and in everything. It is power that holds Universe together. Without it there would not be any world.

Remez Sasson writes and teaches about spiritual growth, meditation, positive thinking, creative visualization and mind power, and issues a biweekly ezine, "Consciousness and Success". He is the author of two books, "Will power and Self-Discipline" and "Visualize and Achieve".