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6. Don’t be afraid to communicate with
professionals. Be prepared when you go to
team meetings, and don’t be afraid to calmly and assertively state your views. Take notes into
meeting with you so you won’t forget
questions you want to ask or
points you want to make. Remember,
professionals need insight from you as much as you need insight from them. The more communication you have,
more powerful
educational team to help your child.
7. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. The field of special education is as complex as your child’s needs. Asking questions doesn’t mean that you are stupid. It just means that you are interested in your child’s education and well- being and want to be an informed parent. You will most likely hear
professionals asking lots of questions as well!!!
8. Keep
lines of communication open with your child. Talk with him about his life both in and outside school. Allow him to express his frustrations, his successes, his disappointments, his hopes, his likes and his dislikes. The better you know your child and what is going on with him,
better you can help other people to work with him.
9. Know your child’s strengths and weaknesses and share them with
professionals. Children with learning disabilities, although they have weaker areas, have many strong areas, too. By highlighting these areas, it makes it easier for
professionals to use them as tools to strengthen
weaker skills. It helps them see
child in a more positive light, and it helps them relate to
child. And it helps your child’s self-esteem to know that
teachers sees good things in him.
10. Help your child learn to advocate for himself as early as possible. As time goes on, and your child has heard you advocate for him, he will be able to understand how to advocate for himself. If he’s heard you say positive things, not only does it increase his self-esteem but it gives him
confidence to speak up for what he needs. Teach him how to communicate how he learns best, what he needs to help him get
most from his classes, and how he feels when confronted with certain issues, such as testing and peer pressure. Give him
power to make his life a success.
You can help your child be able to be a successful, happy, responsible student, well on his way to being
same kind of adult. Advocate for him.
For more plain talk about learning disabilities, please visit us at www.ldperspectives.com.

Sandy Gauvin is a retired educator who has seen learning disabilities from many perspectives - as the parent of a daughter with learning disabilities, as the teacher of children with learning disabilities, and as an advocate for others who have diagnosed and unrecognized learning disabilities. Sandy shares her wisdom and her resources at www.LDPerspectives.com