Those who wilt and turn inward usually punish themselves, whether anyone else or not.

Let's spin ourselves three times and skip-to-my- Lou forwards. Even if we understand how angry person got angry, is it wise to form a partnership or marriage with such a one? That person needs help, but isn't going to take it from you, and for sure not until she or he wants to look at ugly sore again.

So don't date, don't marry, don't even get close to an angry person unless you are a glutton for pain, or else you have strength to wrestle an angry animal down until it's healed.

What it takes to heal an old wound is;

1. take a good close, curious look at it,

2. confront person who caused it originally, and express hurt, pain suffered,

3. whether Cause repents or not, woundee must forgive, set aside that event by giving it to God to redeem, and believe that good will now come out of it.

But old habits of quickly lashing out or self- beating will die hard, and if you are friend that is going to stick it out for a woundee's sake, don't expect to coast just yet.

Brace yourself. You'll get scratched and wounded too, but if you are braced and remember to deal with each wound while fresh, you are a strong and noble character, and God called you a Blessed Peacemaker.

May your tribe increase!

*(Proverbs 22:14 NIV).

Now that we have decided what our 'niche' market is, we need to do some research. What are we going to research? If I enjoyed crocheting, I think it would be interesting to know some history of crocheting. Search libraries on and off line, until you have enough information to write a "good" article on history of crocheting. Look for facts that are not well known. This is an article for your website.

Now we need more content for website. How about some 'basic' stitches? Sit down and write out directions for a beginner to learn 'basic' stitches for crocheting. This will also go on your website.

You could write an ebook taking them from basic stitches to making their first 'project' and on and on and on. Do you see where I'm going here?

I have tried marketing on internet "My" way, now I'm doing it "right" way! When people go on internet to search for something, like learning how to crochet, that is information they are seeking. They aren't looking for twenty other things!

Please remember: If you need help, I'm only an email away!

Thank you for reading.