Using an open adoption method, birth parents and adoptive parents know something about each other. In least open, birth mother reads about several possible families and picks one that sounds best for baby. In most open type, mother and adoptive parents share names, addresses, telephone numbers and actually stay in contact with one another through years.

The second major decision concerning adoption concerns question, "Where will child come from?" Again, there are two options. You can adopt a child born in United States, called a domestic adoption, or you can choose to adopt a child from another country, referred to as an inter-country adoption. If you choose second option, you must then decide from which country your child should come--sometimes a very difficult, but vitally important decision.

No matter what type of adoption you choose to pursue, remember that this is a legal proceeding and must be finalized in court, although process varies from state to state. Adoption is a life-long process, and you and your new addition are sure to have many questions along way. "Why did Mom give me up?" "Who is my real Dad?" These are real and important questions which must be answered by those involved, but adoption is truly a great opportunity for everyone involved. With adoptions everyone wins!

- Don't re-gift a present that you have been given unless a) it is still in it's original packaging, b) it's appropriate for next recipient, and c) re-gifting will NOT be discovered (by original giver or new recipient)

- Always get a gift for a wedding, even if you can't attend (unless "no gifts" were requested)

- Always bring a gift to a shower, but don't feel obligated to do so if you aren't able to attend

Business Gift Giving

Business gifts are appropriate in following situations:

- Close of a business deal (beware of international etiquette)

- Group gifts for a retirement, serious illness, or other momentous occasion

- Holidays (like a Secret Santa or grab bag)

In a business situation, don't give gifts that are:

- Personal in nature (perfume, red roses, etc.)

- Only from you (give outside of office in this situation)

- In violation of company policy (check your company guidelines)

- Not considerate of a person's culture, diet, environment, etc.

GIFT RECEIVING ETIQUETTE

When you receive a gift, no matter what you think of it, say "Thank you". Accept any gift politely and remember that it's a GIFT that was not necessary.

Thank You Notes

"Thank You" notes are highly regarded in gift giving etiquette world. They are particularly common after a bridal shower, baby shower, or wedding. However, if you opened your gift in front of giver when it was given, then a "Thank You" note isn't absolutely necessary, although it is still appropriate. "Thank You" notes don't have to be completely formal, either. The importance is in sentiment.