About Expectations and the Family Vacation

Written by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach & Consultant


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6.If you intend to have a great time together, don’t let anything get in your way. There’s no reason why a visit torepparttar ER should “ruin your vacation,” any more than a few tantrums, some embarrassing table manners, a flat tire, or missed plan connections should. Your experience of your vacation is in your own hands.

7.Plan ahead forrepparttar 134128 predictable – high spirits, moments of boredom, and fights with siblings. You’ve dealt with these at home, and they will accompany you on your trip. Think of ways to deal with these under new circumstances – inrepparttar 134129 car, plane, resort, tourist sights, and be prepared withrepparttar 134130 materials you need. A kit with magic markers, some ear phones, a journal or a good book to read can makerepparttar 134131 difference.

8.Anticipate testing ofrepparttar 134132 limits. It will only throw you if it comes as a surprise. Children do this in any new situation, and a vacation is full of them. Applyrepparttar 134133 same measures you do at home – make it clear whererepparttar 134134 boundaries are, be consistent, pleasant, and anticipaterepparttar 134135 best.

9.Understand that children will rev up for a vacation, not calm down. Some adults do this as well, of course. Some of us plan vacations where we can relax and rest; others plan mountain-climbing adventures, and barefoot sailing. Some of us plan both! Be mindful about what comes withrepparttar 134136 territory.

10.Allow times for children to work off their energy. Plan breaks during long car trips. Take them for a run onrepparttar 134137 beach before you go torepparttar 134138 art museum. Afterrepparttar 134139 formal dinner with Aunt Betty, turn them loose inrepparttar 134140 courtyard to run around a bit.

11.Discuss expectations beforehand. Explain what you can, and what sort of behavior you expect in different circumstances. You can’t cover everything, but you can cover a lot. One thing that’s very important with smaller children is “coming when called.” You can also buy those harnesses for errant toddlers, for their own safety and your piece of mind.

12.Be sure and provide safety equipment – car seats, restraints, life jackets and such. Bring along syrup of ipecac, epinephrine, and other things your physician may recommend for emergencies. Carry a first-aid kit with bandages, Neosporin and tweezers. The same sort of equipment you have at home. Because a vacation provides new situations, accidents can be more likely to occur.

Last but not least, process after each vacation. What did you plan well, what did you plan poorly? What worked and what didn’t? What would you do again, and what would it be best to avoid? What would you do differently? Getrepparttar 134141 whole family involved inrepparttar 134142 discussion, so everyone becomes mindful.

And don’t forgetrepparttar 134143 most important thing: find out what everyone enjoyedrepparttar 134144 most. Be sure and go overrepparttar 134145 good times withrepparttar 134146 family, and make plans for more inrepparttar 134147 future.

©Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach & Consultant, http://www.susandunn.cc . Coaching, business programs, Internet courses, teleclasses and ebooks around emotional intelligence. Mailto:sdunn@susandunn.cc for FREE ezine. I train and certify EQ coaches. Email me for info.


16 Tips For Preventing Passport Problems

Written by William Manor


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8. Make two copies of your passport and photos.

Give one copy of your passport to a friend or relative who can be easily contacted in case of an emergency. Takerepparttar other copy andrepparttar 134127 extra photos with you on your trip. If you use an online document storage service, you can scan your passport and upload a copy. That way, you can access it from almost anywhere inrepparttar 134128 world.

While You're Away

9. Always keep your passport in a safe place!

Never leave your passport in your baggage, backpack, purse, car, hotel room, or anywhere else! When you must carry your passport, keep it in a money belt or inside coat pocket. Upon arrival atrepparttar 134129 hotel, put your passport inrepparttar 134130 hotel safe.

10. Never lay your passport down anywhere.

Passports placed on a counter, phone booth or table can be easily forgotten or stolen. Practicerepparttar 134131 habit of immediately putting your passport away after using it.

11. If you travel as a family or as part of a group, don't let one person carry allrepparttar 134132 passports.

The odds are much greater for one person carrying allrepparttar 134133 passports to lose them or have them stolen than for allrepparttar 134134 passports to be stolen or lost if each individual owner carries his or her own.

12. Never let anyone leave your presence with your passport.

When checking in atrepparttar 134135 airport, passing through customs, exchanging currency, or doing anything else that requires you to show your passport, never allowrepparttar 134136 person examining your passport to leave your presence. Ifrepparttar 134137 person starts to leave, call their attention and request to accompany them.

Law enforcement records show that U.S. passports are sometimes used for unlawful entry intorepparttar 134138 United States or by criminals abroad seeking to establish another identity. You would be pretty embarrassed if your name were associated with illegal activities.

13. Immediately reportrepparttar 134139 loss of your passport.

If you are careful and followrepparttar 134140 tips above, you shouldn't have any problem withrepparttar 134141 loss of your passport. If it does occur though, immediately notifyrepparttar 134142 local police and then proceed torepparttar 134143 nearest U.S. Embassy or Consulate. Takerepparttar 134144 copy of your passport and extra photos with you. You will be issued a temporary passport that you can replace upon returning torepparttar 134145 United States.

After You Return

14. Schedule your passport renewal.

Checkrepparttar 134146 expiration date and make a reminder to renew your passport atrepparttar 134147 proper time. Remember, you should beginrepparttar 134148 process 8 to 11 months prior torepparttar 134149 expiration date. Putrepparttar 134150 reminder somewhere where it won't be forgotten.

15. Checkrepparttar 134151 number of blank pages remaining.

Some countries require a blank page for their visa. If you plan a future trip on which you will visit various countries, you might needrepparttar 134152 same number of pages as countries to be visited.

If you do not have an adequate number of pages but your passport is not due for renewal, you can request additional pages.

16. Store your passport in a safe place.

If you have a safe in your home, keep your passport there. If not, consider a safety deposit box at your local bank.

Followrepparttar 134153 practical tips above and you can easily avoid passport problems and more fully enjoy your international travels.

William Manor is the owner of U.S. Passport Service Guide, a very useful and comprehensive resource for U.S. citizens who travel internationally. http://www.us-passport-service-guide.com


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