“Well,” one says, “I think I apply golden rule by being a completely harmless person. I wouldn’t hurt anyone.” That’s great! The world certainly has room for a lot more harmless folks.

But, golden rule is pro-active. It’s not what we don’t do. It’s what we do. And what we do, if we apply rule, is treat others as we would like to be treated – without regard for what another has done to us or for us, and without regard for future repayment.

Tough to apply? You bet! In fact, oftentimes my failure in applying rule disappoints me. But, we must keep trying, because benefits are well worth effort. Though it’s a rare person who truly understands rule and consistently applies it in every relationship, that individual is generally rich in friendships, family and business relationships, good health and happiness.

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CONNECT WITH 3 PEERS Collaborate and commiserate with others working on a similar goal. Set up regular systems to check in with each other (notice I didn’t say check “on”—that’s why you have a sponsor). These people are your support system. Use meetings, workouts, instant messaging, phone calls, etc…to talk about how you are feeling, get some cheerleading, share wisdom, and have some fun.

CELEBRATE SOME QUICK WINS Set up some short term, achievable milestones early on. We all need to see progress quickly or we start to lose focus. Wins build momentum and energize us. Break your larger goal down into simple, short, achievable milestones so you can see progress within days, not weeks or months. Then celebrate your victories! Make it rewarding, but not in conflict with your goal. For example, if you are taking care of your body and trying to lose weight, don’t reward yourself with a big cake that immediately (at least in your mind) undoes accomplishment. Instead pamper yourself with a pedicure or a quiet hour in a favorite spot.

Taking time to put right systems in place will pay off in end. Don’t go it alone. Succeeding is not just about working harder and being committed. Being committed means you are willing to do what is necessary to ensure your success. If you’re ready to make change stick, start with 3-2-1 action strategies that follow.

3-2-1 ACTION!

So, you know what you want to achieve and now you know what you have to do to succeed. So, let’s get busy….

Write down names of 3 people who would support you in achieving your personal vision. Ask them to work with you starting today.

Set up 2 milestones for this week and make a note on how you will celebrate if you achieve them. Perhaps one milestone is writing your vision down and posting it. Maybe other is getting at least 2 time and energy drains off your schedule.

Find 1 person to be your Sponsor. Be sure to discuss with them best way they can support you in achieving your personal vision.

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