7. I did not tell my "counselee" about pitfalls in taking and enduring in job she is contemplating. My own best self told me that she will probably not listen to my tale of experience from my past. And, it would be presumptious of me to equate my experience with her possible reactions to this new job.

8. The best thing I did do with her was to listen and validate her as a person. I believe that she is capable of evaluating her own experience in light of her up- bringing and life

9. My FEAR is that I did not do enough for her to orient her toward new beginnings for future work. Another FEAR of mine is that she will continue to look for ways to de-value yourself. I think she is a candidate for intensive therapy, which is not my role in working with her.

10. The final part of my confession is that I did my best as I felt it and as it played itself out with both of us.

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Once you understand this, you will realize you can control situation. You can manipulate and use person or situation.

You can use this knowledge to your advantage or disadvantage, positively or negatively.

When you act positively you will bring out positive in others, including children. When you act negatively others will react negatively, including children.

What you project comes back to you!

If you are act positively towards people, they will know it, and that will be related back to you.

Now, what can you do with this information? You can use it to manipulate and control person and/or situation.

The control comes from you using it positively or negatively. It is your choice.

How do you know if someone is possessive, generous, tolerant, moody, selective?

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With a B. S. in Business Communications, Kathy has taught her self-improvment programs around the country at various businesses and Adult Education Centers.

She writes and speaks about succeeding in business and life. Her unique specialty of "Face Reading" has brought her plenty of media attention.

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