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By end of initial appointment, you should know:
how much hypnotherapist charges a little about how hypnotherapy works what to expect when you are hypnotised duration of sessions if more than one session is planned, how many sessions will be required, how frequently you will meet and when reviews will take place.
Making a Decision You are now in an excellent position to make a decision about hypnotherapist, and I suggest that you consider following questions. The list might seem a little daunting at first sight, but don't be put off – seeing a hypnotherapist can allow you to make fundamental and far-reaching changes to your life in a short space of time:
First and foremost, did hypnotherapist make you feel comfortable? Did you find it easy to talk to him/her? If not, it's not going to work out and you should look elsewhere. Was hypnotherapist open about what was going to happen and how long it would take? If hypnotherapist is not involving you in decisions, how do you know that they are appropriate? If hypnotherapist responded to what you had to say, did it make sense? Any remarks hypnotherapist makes in response to significant things you have said should help you clarify your thoughts. Did hypnotherapist understand where you were coming from? Did you feel any pressure to fit in with hypnotherapist's map of world? If hypnotherapist can't meet you in your map of world, she/he isn't going to be able to help you. Did hypnotherapist talk over you, talk when you were trying to think, talk about themselves, or try to get you to agree with them. You are only going to be able to move forward if focus is on you rather than on hypnotherapist.
To summarise, make sure that hypnotherapist is qualified and experienced, and belongs to a professional body with a code of conduct and a complaints procedure. The quality of therapeutic relationship is paramount, and a little extra effort shopping around for right hypnotherapist will pay dividends in long term.
Happy hunting! Copyright © 2005 David Allen. All rights reserved
David is a clinical hypnotherapist and runs a successful practice called "Get the Life You Want!" in Hinckley, Leicestershire. Visit his website www.hypnosis-nlp-therapy.com