5 Things You Shouldn’t Do If He’s Cheating On You

Written by Ruth Houston

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4. Don’t confront him withoutrepparttar 3 P’s – Proof, a Plan, and a Purpose.

Most experts agree that you should confront your husband about his cheating. But you need to have a plan. Chooserepparttar 130870 time and place carefully so you can discussrepparttar 130871 affair at length without interruption. Do not ask your husband if he’s cheating. Cheaters lie. Presentrepparttar 130872 evidence you’ve gathered that proves he’s having an affair - names, dates, places, times, absences, phone calls, physical evidence, etc. Then ask him some pointed questions about his affair: why he did it, how it started, how long it’s been going on, how he feels aboutrepparttar 130873 other woman, what he intends to do now that you know. Listen carefully to his answers so you can accurately assessrepparttar 130874 situation. Then you’ll be able to make a wise decision about what course of action to take. Do not confront your husband without proof of his infidelity. To do so will be a colossal waste of time. Unless you can prove he’s been cheating,repparttar 130875 information-gathering phase will never get offrepparttar 130876 ground. If you need proof, there’s a way for you to get it without hiring a detective or buying software or surveillance equipment. “Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs” will help you find allrepparttar 130877 proof you need using only your eyes and ears, your personal knowledge of your husband, andrepparttar 130878 information in this book.

5. Don’t waste your time and energy onrepparttar 130879 other woman.

One ofrepparttar 130880 worst things you can do is become obsessed withrepparttar 130881 other woman. It’s natural for you to be curious about her, but she’s not worth your time and energy. Repeatedly questioning your husband about her, referring to her or dragging her name intorepparttar 130882 conversation putsrepparttar 130883 spotlight on her instead of onrepparttar 130884 real issues where it belongs. Don’t obsess overrepparttar 130885 details of what happened betweenrepparttar 130886 two them. Concentrate on working things out betweenrepparttar 130887 two of you. Do not humiliate or frustrate yourself by calling or confrontingrepparttar 130888 other woman and demanding that she leave your husband alone. She’s not obligated to take orders from you. Harassing her or threatening her will put you onrepparttar 130889 wrong side ofrepparttar 130890 law. Name-calling, criticizing or belittlingrepparttar 130891 her will only make your husband come to her defense. You’ll be driving them closer together instead of forcing them apart Forget aboutrepparttar 130892 other woman and focus your energy and efforts on getting your marriage back on track.

Will you end up sabotaging your marriage or saving it? The final outcome depends onrepparttar 130893 way you handle things when you first discover your husband’s affair. Inrepparttar 130894 initial stages, you may be unsure exactly what you’re going to do. But at least you know what NOT to do. Whether you stay with your husband or leave him, avoiding these mistakes, leavesrepparttar 130895 way clear for whatever decision you eventually make.

Copyright 2003 Ruth Houston

Ruth Houston is the author of “Is He Cheating on You?-829 Telltale Signs.” To learn more about her book, sign up for her infidelity newsletter, or receive a FREE Infidelity report and list of 29 Telltale Signs, visit her website at http://www.IsHeCheatingOnYou.com or mail to: CheatingSigns@aol.com

sex of the baby

Written by dr anil maheshwari

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Let us now considerrepparttar marriage ceremony in various religions:

In Christianity---it isrepparttar 130868 bride who is first asked byrepparttar 130869 priest "whether she acceptsrepparttar 130870 would-be bridegroom asrepparttar 130871 lawfully-wedded husband".

In Hinduism---it isrepparttar 130872 bride who first garlandsrepparttar 130873 bridegroom, meaning that she has accepted him as her husband and she will bear his children only.

Also it would be worthwhile to note that in Muslim marriage---the would-be bride only is asked byrepparttar 130874 muslim priest whether she acceptsrepparttar 130875 invitation of marriage(nikah) from her would-be husband following whichrepparttar 130876 marriage is solemnised.

So in man-woman relationship----man is alwaysrepparttar 130877 proposer and woman is alwaysrepparttar 130878 chooser---never vice versa.

Fromrepparttar 130879 above observation we can say thatrepparttar 130880 proposing rights are a male prerogative andrepparttar 130881 choosing rights lie exclusively withrepparttar 130882 female. Just as a woman cannot be impregnated against her wishes---similarly atrepparttar 130883 micro level---both sperms (x and y having different charge) are attracted torepparttar 130884 ovum having a variable charge---but onlyrepparttar 130885 sperm which hasrepparttar 130886 opposite charge from that ofrepparttar 130887 ovum will be able to fertilizerepparttar 130888 ovum andrepparttar 130889 other sperm will be rejected.

So whenrepparttar 130890 ovum membrane is positively charged, it will attractrepparttar 130891 sperm carrying X chromosome (which is negatively charged) and a baby girl is produced. Whenrepparttar 130892 ovum membrane is negatively charged, it will attractrepparttar 130893 sperm carryingrepparttar 130894 Y chromosome (which is positively charged), and a baby boy is produced. In short, we can say thatrepparttar 130895 'mating rights' are exclusively withrepparttar 130896 ovum only-------oncerepparttar 130897 ovum is fertilised then onlyrepparttar 130898 x or y sperm determinesrepparttar 130899 sex ofrepparttar 130900 baby(xx means a female and xy means a male)--

--So would it not be most appropriate to say that it isrepparttar 130901 female which choosesrepparttar 130902 sex ofrepparttar 130903 baby (by virtue of selecting which sperm to mate with)-------andrepparttar 130904 male only determinesrepparttar 130905 sex ofrepparttar 130906 baby after conception.(so it is not only unfair but also wrong to blamerepparttar 130907 male for choosingrepparttar 130908 sex ofrepparttar 130909 baby---asrepparttar 130910 poor male has absolutely no control over which sperm(x or y) will finally fertiliserepparttar 130911 ovum --because it isrepparttar 130912 mother nature(ovum) who finally decides which sperm(x or y) to mate with in accordance with its polarity------which eventually decidesrepparttar 130913 sex ofrepparttar 130914 baby.

Conclusion: Female ofrepparttar 130915 species are more powerful thanrepparttar 130916 male.

Your comments and feedback are eagerly awaited.

If you are interested in many ofrepparttar 130917 misconceptions prevalent inrepparttar 130918 world today then please visitrepparttar 130919 site below---i bet you will be surprised.

ok---om shanti

dr anil maheshwari. website : www.creator-creation.com (for beginners)

I am dr anil maheshwari --ms--47 years old male--consultant surgeon and gastro-enterologist from bombay--india. I am interested in spirituality and meditation and various religions of the world.

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