5. Take a Bath or Shower. Preferably a bath if you have one, but even with a shower, you can take your moment in shower or bath to feel warmth of water or feel how your body is immersed in water. How does your skin feel? Do you notice any smells? Is your hair wet. Just be in moment and notice all your senses....breathe.

6. Make Love Slightly Slower for a few moments. As you are making love to your significant other, take a moment to purposely move slightly slower. As you do this begin to mentally feel over all parts of your body. How your skin feels when touching his/hers, how are you breathing? Are you sweating? Is there a scent in air. Take a moment and really be there making love.

7. Smell a flower for an extra breath. This one I love. Often times I will be passing by a flower and if I remember to smell it, I take an extra inhalation to really get full experience of scent. You will be surprised how much that extra inhalation makes a difference in experience.

8. Be Silly. I'm serious;). Being silly allows your creative juices to flow and your creative juices is what life is all about. Letting yourself be silly can also be very relaxing and create joyful situations that are full of meaning.

9. Write a letter to someone close to you... telling them how much you appreciate them. This is not a new idea by any stretch yet it is always worth mentioning since it is so meaningful. A letter that that person will always cherish.

10. Remind yourself that you are a miracle. This may be most important. How they heck did any of us get here? When we break it down to nanotechnology and quantum physics, scientists are stumped to figure out great mystery of us physically being here and interacting and creating symbols and concepts and communicating.

It's boggling. That's why our moments on this earth are so precious and it is a wonderful gift to attempt to cultivate those moments in life that you consider to be sacred.

You get idea...try it out.

- You or other partner has a history of manic depression or depression. Once again infidelity and unpredictability accompany these disorders.

- You are third wheel in a love triangle. If he or she is off to see an ex, a wife or children you might have a problem on your hands.

- You are an emotionally insecure codependent who suffers from anxiety if he or she goes to store, never mind a long ways away.

- You have a history of jealousy or suspicion.

- You need a hug every day.

- You need sex every day.

- You do not write good letters or don't like communicating via email or yahoo messenger.

- You don't communicate well on phone.

- You can't afford a computer or long distance calls.