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Important: If you don’t take time to see it, it won’t happen!
7. Think Big See
big picture in everything we do. So much of our time is wasted dealing with
unimportant things in our lives (what that person said or did,
driver who cut us off this morning, and activities which don’t add value to our lives, etc.) that we forget about
big picture. We were put on this earth to make a difference. We make a difference for our families, our communities, our organizations, and for ourselves. All of our actions must be put into action with this concept in mind. Think a little bigger today than yesterday, and you’ll create a better future tomorrow. Thinking big leads to great actions. Thinking small leads to small results. So Think BIG!
8. Set Goals The fastest way to fail in life is to not set clear goals. Set goals in
financial, family, health, spiritual, and career areas. Your goals must incorporate
SMART techniques or else it’s just a “conversation in
park.”
* S for specific * M for measurable * A for attainable * R for realistic * T for time-based
For example, you might have a goal of achieving $2 million for retirement in twenty years. After doing your research, a SMART goal would be
following:
“I will acquire $2 million dollars for retirement by 2024. I will do this by contributing $20K, or $1667 per month, to my various retirement funds each year. Of
$20k each year, $2k will go to my IRA, and $18K will go into my organization’s retirement program.”
Remember
most detail you can add,
more realistic your goal becomes.
9. Positive Appearance Super achievers are very careful about their appearance and their movements. They know that looking good translates into feeling good. Billy Crystal, of Saturday Night Live and movie fame, once played a character that was known for saying, “It is better to look good than to feel good.” What he was really implying was
“fake it until you make it” concept. In other words, if we are feeling down, then think positively and your mind will tell your body to follow suit and act positively. Also always dress
part of an achiever. Model
dress, actions, and behaviors of someone who is successful and embraces
long term values of successful people. This will also tell your mind that I am an achiever.
Don’t let that be
deciding factor on being motivated. You can easily distinguish those who are motivated from those who are not motivated just by looking at their appearance and their movements. The motivated move forward, onward and upward with confidence.
10. Helping Others Develop an obsession to help others. Share your special talents without expecting a reward, payment, or commendation. And above all else, keep your good deed a secret.
You know what, it you apply
helping techniques to others, it will automatically come back to you tenfold in a number of ways. First,
enjoyment of knowing that a special talent you had made someone else’s life better. Second, because you didn’t seek it, word will spread about you and your deeds. This will be translated into unexpected riches and opportunities. Third, you will gain a new level of confidence in knowing that you can make a difference. Super achievers find motivation and meaning by helping others.

Ed Sykes is a professional speaker, author, and success coach in the areas of leadership, motivation, stress management, customer service, and team building. You can e-mail him at mailto:esykes@thesykesgrp.com, or call him at (757) 427-7032. Go to his web site, http://www.thesykesgrp.com, and signup for the newsletter, OnPoint, and receive the free ebook, "Empowerment and Stress Secrets for the Busy Professional."