5.The GIVE AWAY pile should be articles of clothing (or other items that found their way into your closet) that don’t meet above criterion but that are in good shape. Put these articles in a box or bag and put them in trunk of your car now. At your earliest convenience take them to your local charity. Remember to get a receipt for tax purposes.

6.The THROW AWAY pile is for all of those things that no longer serve any useful purpose. This includes items that are ripped or stained. Bag those items up and put them out with your household trash now.

7.The MOVE pile is for those items that don’t belong in your closet. Take time now to put those items where they belong. If there is no room to put a particular item away, make note of area and put it on your list of places to declutter. Stuff it in there for now or put it in garage, but don’t put it back in your closet.

8.Now you are ready to put all of things you want to keep back in your closet. Sort out your KEEP pile into types of clothing. Separate your slacks, your shirts or blouses, your jackets, suits, etc.

9.Start with one type and hang each item neatly on a hanger, facing all items and hangers same direction. If you share a closet with someone, keep your clothing separate.

10.When you are finished with hanging portion, put your shoes on your shoe rack, your ties on tie rack, your belts on belt hook. Once again, if you share a closet keep your items separate. If you have some odds and ends that need a home in your closet, consider buying some inexpensive organizing containers to store them. Many people are finding that an over-the-door pocket shoe holder is great for odds and ends and accessories. You can see through pockets and items are easily accessible.

Wow! You did it. Doesn’t it feel good? Stand back and look at your closet and give yourself a pat on back. Invite your friends over to see all of your hard work. Celebrate by treating yourself to something special. You deserve it.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR Theresa Frasch is a “Decluttering Specialist.“ Get your FREE Organized 4 Success E-zine and/or "How to Declutter for Good" pamphlet at http://www.organized4success.com.

Anything that is important to you, must start with you first. If you want kindness, you must be kinder to every person you meet. In being kinder to others you will attract kindness to yourself from others.

You must be honest in each encounter with others. This action will attract more people into your life who are honest. Keep your word to others and you will attract more people in your life who will keep their word to you.

Offer real you in relationships first, allowing yourself to be transparent and deeply connected then others will be transparent and deeply connected with you. Create a “safe place for others” and there will be safe places for you.

If you long for unconditional love for yourself, give it to others, it will find its way back to you.

If you long to have others see you for who you really are inside, see others for who they really are inside: a unique, one of a kind creation waiting to be seen for who they really are. The spirit side of you and others (the “real”, Authentic, God created side) is not self centered, needy, greedy, lacking, fearful angry, bitter, or hurtful, but loving, giving, open, kind, curious, abundant, prosperous, creative, intuitive, playful, helpful, generous, joyful, and amazing. If you start looking for those qualities in others and help them find them in themselves, You will recognize all of that in yourself.

Have you ever been at a dance and music starts, but no one wants to be first out on floor…………. But as soon as first couple takes that step onto floor, others quickly follow and soon many are dancing with them. Life is like that. Be first on dance floor of life and soon there will be many others dancing with you. You will find a community of like minded spirits, who want to dance dance of life with you.

Life is really about our own journey to truth and wholeness. Our choices and how we see things shape our world and attract what we have in our life. So if you do not like what you have in your life right now, begin today by being 100% responsible for rest of your life and re-create your life and what you attract into it by being what you want others to be for you, rest will follow effortlessly.

What we are not getting in our lives is a reflection or a mirror of what we are not being or giving out.

Be loving with yourself. Don't judge what you do not like about what you see reflected back to you in your life. Just notice it and get clear on what you would like to be different. Then let it start with you giving out what you want to see.