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- call them when they aren’t expecting it. Who answered, are they angry, are they whispering, are they being secretive, whose voice was it on answering machine?
- try to find their number in a phone book.
- ask some of other people you have chatted with at your dating site if they know anything. Keep it polite and ‘oh, by way’ so message doesn’t get back you have been checking up on their facts.
2.No Sepia-Toned Photos Please
The biggest reason for telling lies in online dating is, easily, to deceive someone about your physical appearance.
Its common for people to use old photos from a more atractive time in their life.
Old photos are pretty easy to spot. Look for: - color and image qualities of photo, - hair styles, - facial hair styles, - clothing styles, - background images like old advertising or logos - apparent age in photo compared to written age in profile.
Of course if there is no photo you can’t tell. I would say never bother contacting anyone who doesn’t have a photo.
Surveys have shown that 80% of people agree with me.
And, unless dater has only been online dating for a week or so, don’t tolerate any excuses like: - no camera, - no scanner, - haven’t got around to it yet.
Please! If this person is serious about finding a relationship, they can easily get off their pants and spend 10 bucks on getting a photo scanned or having one taken.
I could go on but once again we’ve run out of room. In next article in this series you will learn about what I call 'Perpetually Unavailable Syndrome' and what to do when it occurs.
Your Truly, Adam Coole
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