2. Only use a laser or bubble jet printer to make copies. Never use a dot matrix printer, copier or a fax.

3. A Times Roman font works seems to work best for paper based resumes and Courier, Monaco, Arial or Verdana fonts work well for electronic resumes

4. Although changing font size for headings is okay, never change fonts themselves.

5. A general font size of 10 to 12 point for body and 11 to 14 point for headings is generally used. The best tip here is to get body and header font size in proportion; i.e. don't use a point 10 font for body and a point 14 for headers. A 10 font for body and a point 12 for headers is fine. Also remember, font size you may see on screen is not same as on resume when printed out (and vice-versa).

6. Use bold for headings

7. Use black or dark blue ink throughout your application. Usually, companies will make copies of your resume for distribution among human resources and relevant line managers. Darker ink colours display best in event of your application being photocopied.

8. Ideally white paper (or ivory) with a matching envelope. Remember darker your paper more difficult it is to photocopy (which recruiters tend to do) and circulate within a company as we have just said. The paper and ink must contrast.

Learning to recognize and stay with our feelings is a valuable experience. We can learn that just because we feel something, we don't have to act on it. Or that we can be angry and choose how to respond rather than let anger control us. The more we know how we feel and ways to feel, release, be with, or let go of our feelings, better we feel about ourselves.

But how do I know what I'm feeling?

If you don't know how you feel or how to get in touch with your feelings: 1. Identify how you feel:

* Sit quietly for a moment; you might want to close your eyes, and then wait and see what you notice from inside.

* Notice how different areas of your body feel.

* Focus on areas of tension, breathe, and see if anything comes to your awareness. You don’t have to think about it.

* Notice whether any thoughts, images, feelings, memories, sounds come to you.

* If nothing comes, that’s okay. You may still want to continue.

* Ask yourself how you're feeling, and be aware of what comes up.

* You don’t have to figure anything out, just be aware.

* If nothing comes to you, that's okay. Sometimes that happens. You may still want to try again, another time.

2. Acknowledge your feelings:

* If you know how you feel, let yourself know that this is how you are feeling right now, and that’s okay.

* You don’t have to know where it is coming from.

* You don’t even have to know what to name it; you may simply know that you have a lot of pain in your chest.

* Breathe through it.

* Let your feelings just be there.

* You don’t have to do anything with them, just accept that this is how you feel.

But where do these feelings come from? They just seemed to come out of blue.

If you want to understand why you feel a certain way:

1. Identify source of your feelings:

* Know that you are not being "silly" or "crazy" for feeling how you feel; your feelings are there for a good reason.

* Turn inward, and ask yourself what are these feelings connected to.

* Wait and see what you notice. You might just know. You might remember something, see an image, hear a sound, notice tension in a particular area of your body.

* Try not to analyse, interpret or judge what comes to you. Be open to what you notice.

* Go deeper. We may think we already know why we're feeling a certain way, but sometimes there is more to it than what we think. Being patient and receptive helps us to go deeper.

* If nothing comes to you, that’s okay, too. It helps to just let yourself feel.

What do I do with these feelings?

2. Express or release your feelings.

Even if you don't know why you are feeling this way, you can still express yourself in privacy of your own home.

* Focus on how you feel. Open your mouth and let a sound come from that feeling.

* Move with feeling. You can dance, stomp around, kick, hit something.