This is one of our greatest fears when asking someone out. Do you fancy someone at work or shop you visit? Sure we all have been there before. We fancy that someone but Yet we do not seem to have courage to walk up to them and ask them out.Why? I am sure you have heard word "Rejection".
Rejection is a subject not far from our minds when we want to ask out that sexy woman or man. Once we experience rejection we are deprived of our self-confidence we feel small, worthless and most of all insecure. The fact is, being rejected hurts no matter who we are, we all have experienced it some stage in our life.
The way we handle rejection is totally dependent on our personality , way we were brought up , our first relationships with opposite gender etc..
Not so long ago when I worked in hospitality industry I really fancied this one particular girl. She gave me all right signs that she feels same. I did not really have courage to ask her out face to face as I thought she was out of my league. Don't get me wrong I ain't an ugly looking bloke but I just couldn't find right time. Eventually when I did didn't I make a total fool out of myself. As it turned out she was married. I thought someone just crushed my heart or tore them out of place. The way she said it with a smile she really brushed me aside.and being in a public did not help either. I could feel my face all red as usual. After that I felt a little bit uneasy around her every time I didn't know how to behave around her. I think she could sense it.
So being in animal kingdom we cannot be attractive to all and be liked by opposite sex.Never feel ashamed if you are rejected, move on.Rejection can come in many forms from a partner being unfaithful , calling off a relationship and it can come in small forms a date for instance who decides no to turn up which tells you that either they do not want to take things further or perhaps they were not interested in you after all.If you are on receiving end of a rejection, keep things in perspective by relating to many aspects of your life.