The clothes closet also becomes a storage area for clothing and accessories that are outdated, ripped, or stained. It is a holding place for clothes that might come back into style, accessories that were bargain but we don’t really like, and things that cost us a fortune but that we’ll never wear again because we don’t like them, don’t fit into them, or don’t lead that kind of life anymore.

Cleaning out a clothes closet can hurt. It’s hard to throw away stuff that is still good, stuff that cost us a lot of money. But it has to be done. So think ahead to how good it will feel to have a closet filled with all of things you like. Think ahead to how good it will feel to see everything in your closet. Think how nice it will feel to look in your closet and not feel guilty about all those things you have but can’t wear anymore. Be ruthless, have fun and organize your closet!

1.Begin by getting proper supplies: plenty of hangers, an expandable shoe rack, belt hook, tie rack, a closet doubler (another hanging clothes rod that hangs from your current one) or pants and skirts hangers (the kind that hold multiple pairs). I prefer closet doubler; I find it more convenient to see and get to clothes I want.

2.Remove everything (yes, everything!) from your closet. As you remove items place them in one of five piles: KEEP, REPAIR, GIVE AWAY, THROW AWAY, MOVE.

3.The KEEP pile should be things that belong in your closet that meet these criterions: they fit you now, you like way you look in them now and they are in style now. This includes all clothes, shoes, hats, belts, ties, etc. If you are not sure it fits, try it on now. Your KEEP pile should include clothes you love to wear and clothes that make you feel good when you wear them. It should include your special occasion wardrobe, too, as long as it meets above criterion.

Two sisters growing up in same house. Their mother is an excellent seamstress and sews for many people in town. She also make all of clothes her two daughters wear which gives her great pride in dressing them in latest fashions at a fraction of cost. The mother loves seeing her daughters in her creations. Sewing for her daughters is an act of love for mother.

One sister loves fact that her mother sews her such beautiful clothes. She calls then her “designer” clothes. She feels love and care that goes into each new garment. She feels so special putting on new dresses and showing her friends.

The other sister hates fact that her mother sews her clothes. She feels others will think they can’t afford store bought clothes. She hates being even slightly different than her friends even though it means she has nicer clothes. She is embarrassed and feels that if her mother really cared she would buy her clothes from store.

Two sisters living under same roof, experiencing exact same circumstances in different ways. One has chosen to make one meaning out of it and other, a totally different meaning.

We have choices too. How will we see things in our lives, our businesses, relationships, our abundance or lack of it. What are we willing to do to see positive side of coin. More to point, what are we willing to do to change how we see things?

Scientist have been studying vibrational frequencies of negative and positive emotions. There are instruments that can measure these frequencies. When we hold a negative though for more than 17 seconds our energy vibration goes down, and when we hold a positive thought for more than 17 seconds vibration is at a higher frequency. Ever been around someone who was depressed and seeing negative? We all have. They can literally drain our energy if we hang out with them. On other hand, a positive person, can lift our spirits just being in room with them. Is it any wonder that positive people attract good things and people into their lives? And negative people seem to attract every negative thing to them. Every time you talk to them they have another poor me story. It’s their choice and yours too. What will you choose to make out of your life.

“It is never to late to become person you were meant to be”

Sheri Bardo / Life Coach www.authenticallyu.com

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You Must Become That Which You Want To Attract In Your Life."