$75000 Time Management Secret

Written by Donald Schnell


Article Title: The $75,000 tip to keep you from drowning in email and other tasks Author Name: Dr. Donald Schnell Contact Email Address: Donald@spiritualjava.com Word Count: 391 Category: Personal Development, Motivation, Self Help Copyright Date: 2003

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The $75,000 tip to keep you from drowning in email and other tasks. ©2003 Dr. Donald Schnell

Are you drowning in email? Is your mind filled with anxiety over an increasing number of tasks?

Each day that you put off accomplishingrepparttar 130901 tasks and assignments that are yours, creates more pressure forrepparttar 130902 next day, andrepparttar 130903 day after that.

Time management is a hot topic onrepparttar 130904 internet. The Overture search term suggestion tool indicated as of May 2003 that over 34,000 individuals were searchingrepparttar 130905 keyword phrase time management. Experts predict that Overture is only capturing about 2% ofrepparttar 130906 total searchs. This means there is a potential of approximately 1.5 million people daily searching for help with time management. Mind you this is onlyrepparttar 130907 tip ofrepparttar 130908 iceberg. These arerepparttar 130909 individuals possibly seeking help! Many might feel they don’t EVEN have enough time to seek assistance!

Resistance to Loving

Written by Margaret Paul, Ph.D.


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Title: Resistance to Loving Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D. E-mail: margaret@innerbonding.com Copyright: © 2003 by Margaret Paul Web Address: http://www.innerbonding.com Word Count: 1375 Category: Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth

RESISTANCE TO LOVING

I have counseled individuals, couples, families and business partners forrepparttar 130901 last 35 years, and I amrepparttar 130902 author/co-author of eight published books on relationships and emotional healing. Inrepparttar 130903 course of my work, I’ve seen thousands of people get stuck in misery, even when they knew how to move into their peace and joy. How often do you get stuck inrepparttar 130904 anger, anxiety, withdrawal or depression of your wounded self? You know you can open, pray, invite love into your heart and do your inner work, yet how often do you find yourself resisting doing so? You might hear yourself say things like, "It won't work," or "I can't" or "God isn't there for me so why bother?"

The problem is that our wounded self often gets stuck inrepparttar 130905 Resistance Syndrome. We don’t want to open, we don’t want to love, we don’t want to be controlled by what we "should" do, nor controlled by God. Perversely, even though we may feel miserable, we refuse to open to learning and loving ourselves and others.

When we finally do open, we feel happy and peaceful, wondering why it took us so long. In fact, once we open, we may find ourselves thinking, "I’m never going back to that misery. This feels so great, so full. This is what life is about!"

Yet next time we are triggered into our hurt, anger or fear, we go right back to being stuck in our darkness. Why? Why do we persist in resistingrepparttar 130906 very thing that would bring us joy?

Understanding your intent isrepparttar 130907 key to understanding your resistance to loving. When you resist opening to Spirit, resist doing your inner work, it’s because your highest priority in that moment is to control and resist being controlled. Controlling and not being controlled becomes your god, your purpose. When control is your highest priority, you will not open to loving. You may believe that if you open you will be too vulnerable to being hurt, rejected, dominated. It is more important in that moment to avoidrepparttar 130908 pain of what you fear than it is to be loving to yourself and others, even though you are causing yourself worse pain by disconnecting from Spirit. So you punish whoever you think caused your pain - which may be yourself, God, a loved one - by staying in darkness.

All of this is because your wounded self thinks it can find its way by itself. It thinks if it stays safe by shutting down, not caring, numbing out with substances or processes, it will be okay. It wants control, especially control over not being controlled, more than anything, and it can’t maintainrepparttar 130909 illusion of control and open to being guided by Spirit atrepparttar 130910 same time.

This isrepparttar 130911 human dilemma with which we all struggle: who is in charge of our lives - our wounded self or our spiritual Guidance? Many of us turn to Guidance when things are going well, but immediately revert torepparttar 130912 controlling ways of our wounded self as soon as our safety and security are threatened. What do you do when someone is angry at you, blames you, doesn’t do what you want? What do you do when things don’t go your way? Do you do your inner work and turn to your Guidance for what is loving to yourself and others, or do you turn to your addictions to anger, withdrawal, substances and processes? How long do you stay stuck in your wounded self? Following are some examples of people choosing to stay stuck inrepparttar 130913 Resistance Syndrome.

Veronica was enraged at her son. She was extremely frustrated at not having control over his refusal to do his homework. They had an ongoing power struggle over homework, and while Veronica realized that she was participating inrepparttar 130914 power struggle by trying to control her son, she refused to stop. The control was so important, as well as not being controlled by his resistance to her control, that she would keep escalating her anger until she’d hit him. Mortified atrepparttar 130915 last time she did this, she called me for help.

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